When I was younger, I saw everything in black and white. As I've aged and also found people like you on FR, I've had a lot of fun being conditioned to a little bit of grey.
I hear ya. I started noticing a little grey a while back, and over time, I've gradually come to think that most everything is grey, with very little black and white. But I've also come to think that I prefer it that way - life is easy, safe, and boring when everything's black and white ;)