That would fall under the catagory of, "none of your business". You think you know me well enough to ask these kinds of questions but you don't.
I am not sure, but perhaps you think that just because I don't condemn these sailors for visiting a brothel that I must go to them all the time myself. If this is what you assume then you are wrong and you owe me an appology.
As for which is more pathetic having a relationship with your hand or one with a prostitute, I will admit that neither is ideal, but at least a prostitute is a person.
I wasn't aware that you could have a relationship with either one.