So you are of the opinion that school officials should be fulfilling parents' roles? Does that apply to the classroom as well? Do teachers get to teach whatever PC nonsense they feel is right because "the parents should have done so in the first place"?
If that vice principal were doing the PC thing, she would have sent all those home who were not wearing mini skirts and string bikini underwear.
Alas
Call Penn State. Demand Tuition Refund.....Exactly what do you think the phrase describing the schools legal obligation "In loco Parentis" means ?
I wish that someone would.