Posted on 04/23/2002 1:28:08 PM PDT by DouglasKC
Montcalm (Michigan) priest resigns after admitting abuse 25 years ago
Monday, April 22, 2002By Charles Honey and Melissa Slager
The Grand Rapids Press
EDMORE -- Parishioners at two Montcalm County Catholic churches are reeling after their well-liked priest resigned over the weekend after admitting to sexually abusing a young male about 25 years ago in another state.
The Rev. Vincent Bryce told members of St. Margaret Mary Alacoque Catholic Church in Edmore and St. Bernadette of Lourdes in Stanton he is leaving the rural parishes he has served since 1995.
Bryce's forced departure comes after the Diocese of Grand Rapids learned late last week the 72-year-old priest recently was accused of sexually abusing a minor in another diocese and admitted to the allegation.
Bishop Robert Rose said Sunday the diocese learned of the matter from the Chicago office of the Dominican Fathers, an international order to which Bryce belongs.
Dominican leadership had no prior knowledge of the alleged abuse, Rose said.
Members of St. Bernadette's said the accusation did not fit the priest they came to know.
"The man has been so gentle since he got here," said Chuck Cilibraise, of Stanton, a longtime member and former parish council president at St. Bernadette's. "If you met him, you would find it hard to believe he is capable of that sort of thing."
Cilibraise's reaction was typical of people at both churches, said the Rev. Thomas Page, assistant vicar for priests in the Grand Rapids diocese. Page met with the congregations Saturday afternoon and Sunday morning following Masses led by Bryce.
"There was kind of a disconnect there: 'Are we talking about the same guy?'" Page said. "I saw some tears in the crowd.
"He's just a kind old priest."
Bryce was directed by superiors in the Dominican order to resign and return to regional headquarters in Chicago. Grand Rapids is one of several Midwest dioceses he served for the Dominicans. Ordained in 1957, he came to Grand Rapids from St. Gertrude parish in St. Clair Shores.
"Over the years, he has been a very fine pastor," said the Rev. David Wright, vicar provincial for the Dominicans' Chicago office. "This came as a total surprise to anyone here."
Wright said the Dominicans were notified last week by an attorney that a client made accusations against Bryce. Wright said the abuse occurred somewhere in the Midwest, but would not specify where, or where the accuser lives now.
Bryce admitted to the charge when confronted with it, Wright said. The Dominicans then contacted the Grand Rapids diocese, which accepted the order's request that Bryce resign.
Wright said the Dominicans are trying to talk with Bryce's accuser. It is the first sexual-abuse allegation made against Bryce, he said.
Before Bryce was assigned here in 1995, officials in the 11-county Diocese of Grand Rapids checked his records and "were assured in writing that his record was clear," Bishop Rose said in a prepared statement.
The Rev. William Zink, pastor of St. Michael parish in Remus, will serve as temporary administrator at the two churches. Visiting priests will fill in each week until a permanent pastor is named. St. Bernadette's has about 180 families; St. Margaret Mary has about 82.
At each church this weekend, Bryce briefly discussed his departure, and Page read a statement from Rose praising Bryce's "seven years of loving and dedicated service."
Rose's statement also asked for prayers for Bryce's "victim of many years ago." He said Bryce was "sincerely repentant for what he did over a quarter a century ago."
Bryce did not specify sexual abuse when addressing the congregation, said Cilibraise, the St. Bernadette parishioner. Cilibraise said Bryce did not admit to any charges but said he had to go to Chicago to answer them. Attempts to reach Bryce on Sunday were unsuccessful.
Tim Gurecki, a St. Bernadette custodian who learned of the accusation later in the day, also was stunned.
"This doesn't sound like the father I know," said Gurecki, adding he will wait for the investigation's outcome. "No one's a saint, so I'm not going to crucify the guy."
His wife, Cathy Gurecki, however, said simply resigning is not enough if the charges are true.
"This is a horrible crime," she said. "Whatever they do to him can't be enough."
Make him a Bishop.
Possibly. Or else they are predators and other victims are too ashamed to come forward. A man who was sexually abused as a teenager probably isn't none to anxious to talk about it.
What did he expect? A drooling Mr. Hyde look-alike with a barbed dildo sticking out of his pocket? By all accounts, every one of these molester-priests was a charmer. Just like old Ted Bundy.
Agree completely. Before he could abuse them he had to gain their trust.
The door has been opened for others to come forward.
Even worse, how many GOOD priests were turned away to let these guys in and how many walked away when they saw what was happening.
I suspect the US Cardinals may be so soiled by this, they may be paralyzed and unable to deal with it. I bet there isn't one priest in America who doesn't know someone who has done this kind of thing. The Church may have to allow married priests just to refill the parsonages.
There have been thousands of complaints settled by the church. We don't see them because as part of the setllement, they (the victim) agree to not talk about it.
It's time for the Church to do a thorough housecleaning ---it's true what we're seeing are all the incidents over the past 20-30 years come out all at once even if they were isolated incidents. But it's time to get zero tolerance in the Churh.
Yes, it has. But I doubt this alone will resolve the difficulty. The problem has become so endemic that the task, as I see it, is to hunt these pedophilic/homosexual priests and seminarians down, to aggressively root them out. Parishoners, not the clergy, must do this to protect their own church. They must organize and send their own people into the seminaries, the churches and the Catholic universities, find the perpetrators, collect the evidence, and publicly expose the malefactors as well as their willing enablers. They must raise such a stink that the church elders cannot possibly ignore them. IMO, if this is not done, the problem will persist down through the coming centuries.
I think everything is coming out now for whatever reason.
A lot has come out because of the internet. We're able to read the Boston papers, including the dirty details.
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