[cantfindagoodscreenname]

How does holding the view I hold mean I have my head in the sand? It's just like I tell my kids....you alone are responsible for your own actions. It's no different for adults who commit cold blooded murder.

[Bikers4Bush]

If you knew your spouse was unstable and had discussed killing your children and you did nothing, would your spouse alone be responsible for their deaths when it came to pass?

I think not. You would be complicit because you didn't remove them from harms way.

[sharktrager]

Well, the fact that Russell pushed to have his wife taken off medication because he wanted another child (against the expressed concerns of her doctor) is a sign. As is the fact that her first words to him when she called after killing the children were "I finally did it", to which he responded not with "Did what?" but with "Which one?" seems a pretty good sign to me that he has some culpability here.

His guilt does not diminsh her's.

[stands2reason]

You think there's nothing wrong with leaving your children alone with someone you knew was psychotic?