[wimpycat]

You can't be seriously suggesting that force is justified if the wife is "holding out". You must not have expressed what you really meant to say.

If the husband is in the mood and the wife isn't, a lot of times it has nothing at all to do with the husband's behavior, either in bed or out of bed, but...sometimes it does.

[Bush2000]

You can't be seriously suggesting that force is justified if the wife is "holding out". You must not have expressed what you really meant to say.

Sorry I wasn't more clear. No, I'm saying that sustained refusal of sex gives him a pretty good reason to get a mistress. I would never advocate forcible rape under any circumstances.