[stumpy]

I learned about my ex's cheating when she ran off with one of them. I figured she'd "been shopping" around and took one that made at least 5 times what I did. She also did not want "our" children to interfere with her planned lifestyle with the older wealthier model.

[maro]

I think that's right. You married guys should watch what your wives are up to at parties. A woman thinking about cheating can sometimes take a long time to work up to it. I once was at someone's home for an informal party. The host's brother, who was a bit of a sad sack, had a pretty young wife. They had just had a child. I was chatting away and being my usual friendly self when I suddenly noticed that the brother's wife was about two feet too close to me and smiling way too much. I walked away weirded out; turns out she ran away with her boss a few months later. I think she was doing a practice run on me.

[1Old Pro]

Ouch, Sh*t happens I guess.