Why do women cheat on their husbands

[Bloody Reaper]

Check out reply #300.

[a_witness]

Ok, since we've run the gamut on why men cheat on their wives, lets got with "why do women cheat on their husbands"

Same reason as men
Faithlessness and evil nature

[Mark17]

Check out reply #300.

Good work.

[Intimidator]

If I left my wife unsatisfied I would feel that I might as well have gone in the closet and jacked off to a picture of Hillary Clinton.

Dude, couldn't you do it to playboy or something, thats just sick. LOL By the way folks, I didn't ask the question because my wife cheats on me, I have a wonderful sex life and relationship with my wife and yes, I give her that orgasm 99% of the time and its mostly through oral stimulation. I have a very talented tongue she says.

[M. Peach]

It sounds like you are already right on target - you've taught me a few things in fact. Do you practice family counseling for a living? You give wise advice and appear to have solid relationships.

When one goes searching for a mate, one can liken it to goods and services put out into the marketplace. In reality, we all have a certain value on the marketplace which is purely subjective. Men generally are attracted to beauty, women to money and power. When one increases their market value, they are able to attract a mate with a higher market value as well.

As far as sex goes, men are genetically programed to seek quantity as opposed to women who generally seek quality. This can be attributed to the comment you made earlier regarding social Darwinism. Women have to be selective because they can only procreate so many times in their lifetime due to the 9 month gestation period.

Men are more programed to seek quantity - so that they can recreate as many times as possible.

The pill and the sexual revolution has changed things, so women can now concentrate more on the pure pleasure of sex as opposed to being concerned about getting pregnant. I could go on - but I think you already know much of this stuff.

One of my best chapters was seeking the "Power Spot" in social situations....

[sandonca]

Thanks for your e-mail reply, but Ayn Rand was a female, and females get the kids, the house, child support and everything. The father gets nothing. I think if a relationship is completely horrible, a guy will get out, other than that, he will stick it out even if it's bad, if there are kids envolved. That is if he loves his kids. That's me. I really would like to feel a true and loving relationship but it's not going to happen..ever! I tried to talk to my wife into a separation seven years ago. We separated but she talked me into getting back together to try and work things out. I did that and she got pregnant during that time. I hated her for that but at the same time I loved her for the times we had and she was the mother of my child. So I stuck it out. But today I still have a wondering eye. I really want to feel that romantic feeling. I have talked about leaving, but my wife first said she would take the kids away from me. Because her parents live out of town and she would need support. That was then, but now, she talked my great aunts into giving us money to buy a house, which they did. But now she says that if we separate that she wants the house, and how could I throw her and the kids out of the house? I would have a hard time doing that, but at the same time, I cant afford to pay her for the mortgage and live myself. But I love my kids and want the best for them too. I'm a sucker with a good heart.

[sandonca]

But what's going to happen next? Well for sure I'm going to look around and try and find out what kind of women might want to be with a guy like me who has two kids. I've met a couple of women that gave me games but no comittment. Bloody hell it was the run around. I loved the romance but I'm not willing to take a chance with my life anymore. Here's one example: Now, moving on to the big stuff. I value what you say. That is how I keep getting back to this (communicating). We met under some strange circumstances (the emails). You have proven to be a good friend, I appreciate that. We are honest with each other, right? I have to say that the way you are handling your marriage bothers me a little. I also have to ask myself what you are doing with this whole 'finding another relationship' thing. Dont you feel that really endangers you, your kids, your wife? It seems unfair, or maybe just not right to do that to your family. (Do I sound like your brother?) On the other hand, is it fair to someone else, like me, maybe, to only get that part of you that you can spare? So that you can protect the life you have built with your family, but still have passion, love, or excitement, whatever it is you really want (I'm not sure what that is....) whenever it's good or easy for you? I'm not trying to cause hurt or cast any judgment on you, just trying to sort it out or come to terms with it, it keeps coming up in my mind. I loved this woman but it was all just words.

[sandonca]

What is going to happen next is that I'm going to go after someone elses wife. Sorry, but I need to feel that romance and that is the way it just is. I hope I can find someone nice who's husband doesn't treat them very well. Perhaps it is all just.

[sandonca]

Sorry for writing this stuff. But I feel like some other guy off another post here that is just taken advantage of. I really don't want some other guys wife, I want my own and one that I feel a part of. I think my wife is more interested in her life style and having a nice home with the kids. Me too, but if we divorse, I lose all that but she keeps it. Or she makes me feel guilty if she and the kids lose the house, etc. But she trapped me, it's not like I wanted it and then later didn't want it. But either way I'm going to be the loser and look like the bad guy if I'm the one that says I want out.

[sandonca]

But what really bugs me, is how I hear people going on about a man being of Character and honor!! And how a man is nothing of a person if he isn't keeping up to his promise. I know and understand what they mean, but it's a frustration that builds within me, and has nowhere to go.

[petite_filipina]

my fiance caught his ex wife on the hotel fucking with another men. and he divorced his wife, he did the right all i can say is that women who is like her are wothless. but now my fiance is very happy with me, because im much younger, much slimmer, much smarter and much prettier than his ex and of course i do have high morals.