IMO one of the reasons that Americans have drinking problems is that we are not taught how to drink responsibly. As children, we are taught about 'how bad it is' yet we see grown ups drinking. Kids get curious and rebellious and try it on their own without having any idea of how to control consumption or the consequences. Hence secret drinking and binge drinking.
If kids are taught to drink and the mystery is removed, they are less likely to overindulge or sneak booze from the liquor cabinet. A little wine with meals sometimes, a sip of beer or a taste of a mixed drink. At least that's the way it works in my home.
I agree with that and it is how I was brought up. I don't drink very often and have maybe 1 beer if I feel compelled. I don't like beer much but prefer hard liquor. If I drink hard liquor I may have 2 drinks but no more. My drinking happens maybe 4 or 5 times a year. I never get drunk. I did however get drunk a few times when I was young but didn't care for the consequences of getting a hangover or throwing up through my nose. Oh the folly of youth!