Those aren't the kind of standards I was talking about. More along the lines of moral standards. Like, would it make sense to allow gay marriage on in one section of town and to not in another?
Your deeded community could prohibit any sort of people, including co-habiters, or gay people.
They won't be your neighbors if you so desire, neither must you associate, employ, buy, sell or rent to them. You'd be perfectly free to dissassociate yourself from them in every way, and there wouldn't be a thing they could do about it.
So why would their marriage status matter to you?
I think Libertarians think it would. And I JUST PLAIN DON'T WANT IT anywhere, because I think it's absurd. (I don't think any church allows gay marriage, and marriage does not make any sense when taken out of the context of the church. I guess I'm just a Christian chauvinist. And I don't apologize!) :-)
I'll have to leave y'all now, my culturally diverse fellow freepers. See you tomorrow.