Most people would agree that regular sex with multiple partners is pretty perverted. It's also makes them more likely to catch STDs, some of which (like herpes) are not curable. And several hundred posts ago, someone asked such an astute question: if everyone's so proud of that kind of lifestyle, how come so many of them take pains not to let the children know? One can assume only one reason: shame. I find that especially telling. I'm not talking about getting into the play-by-play details of the sexual act--these people don't want their children to know even the basics, that "mommy" and "daddy" have sex with many other people. They're ashamed of what they do on some level or other, but not morally strong enough to do something about that shame.
"And several hundred posts ago, someone asked such an astute question: if everyone's so proud of that kind of lifestyle, how come so many of them take pains not to let the children know?"Because it isn't the children's business, that's why.
My wife and I close our bedroom door while we have sex, and it isn't because we are ashamed of whatever it is that we do in there, but it is because we do not feel that it is the kid's business, at any level.
My parents are normal, in every sense of tne word, and they took great precautions not to allow us into their private life. And that's what it is, it is private time for the adults. Believe it or not, not everything that adults do should be made known to children. Even after marriage, my wife and I want time, and things, that are strictly hers and mine.
That does not, in any way, mean that we don't adore our kids.
If Danielle's parents had openly conducted their alleged (notice the word alleged, you are still working off rumours andf innuendo) swinging openly in front of the children, would that have made everything better in your eyes?
Did you and your husband allow your kids to watch you having sex?
If you didn't, was it because you were ashamed of having sex?