[MizSterious]

No, Luis, there is not. People try to rationalize all kinds of behaviors as being "lifestyle choices," including the NAMBLA bunch. They have absolutely used that exact argument. Child molesters of every sort have tried to rationalize their behavior with that argument. The fact remains: when people bring home barflies for sex parties, leaving the children to fend for themselves, that's deviant behavior. Just because one of the wife's sex partners is heterosexual, it does not necessarily mean he doesn't prefer the daughter to the mother. The parents bear a tremendous amount of guilt for putting their children at risk.

[Luis Gonzalez]

One action, molesting minors, is against the law. The other, promiscuity, is not.

The fact that you do not see the gap is,in and of itself, disturbing.