It means you chose to go there. If you die there, don't blame anyone else . The killers did the crime, but you handed them the opportunity. Had you realized there was a threat, and paid attention to it, you wouldn't have to be concerned about being dead, because you wouldn't be there.
I know if I walk out into a busy highway full of fast moving cars, there's a possibility I'll get run over. But I'm wise enough to wait for a clearing, or the light to change. If I chose to walk across anyway, I would be dead. Period.
I give up. A human life is valuable...no matter what. We could argue about this all day long, but I really don't want to, ya know? My heart goes out to his family, and a child that he will never know, and a child that will never know his father, if indeed this first email is correct.
Can we just agree to disagree on this and just *pray* that he is still alive?