You are going to have to decide between living in Sweden for the rest of your life, which your husband and your daughter are going to do whether you like it or not--
and going back to the stars and stripes with just the boy and starting over.
Did you ever have to finally decide...to take just one, and let the other one ride...did you ever have to finally decide?
Save your money, honey, just decide which to do and do it. Nobody said it would be easy. And once you've made your decision, no more whining. Be a good little svenska housewife, or get on the next plane home. Which is it?