[Rutabega]

He loves him because to him this man is his Dad. I can't believe you think it is okay to call little boys 'b*stard', *dumbs***', and yell at them for no reason (no whining or annoying 4 year old antics) but because you have that power ofver him. He is in daycare a few hours in the morning so I can take Swedish language classes, and the teachers there told me that my husband is so rude and mean they had to tell me about it. Even my in-laws think we should get divorced because of his behavior!

[Architect]

Even my in-laws think we should get divorced because of his behavior!

Perhaps you should enlist them as allies in a more constructive way?

[StarFan]

... and the teachers there told me that my husband is so rude and mean they had to tell me about it. Even my in-laws think we should get divorced because of his behavior!

I'm curious what changed this man? Surely you would have seen signs prior to marrying him.