Better yet, get involved in helping to repeal no-fault divorce laws. These laws were enacted by the divorce industry that now profits from the assets of families involved in the divorce mill. No-fault is unconstitutional in its very application. There is absolutely no other situation where you can be deprived of your assets and children without ever having been accused of a crime and without ever being able to speak a single word in your own defense. The most vile criminal has more rights afforded them than the person who has been served with divorce papers for a no-fault divorce.
As men and women we should honor our committments to our families and should be held to those committments. Government has no business involving themselves in our families. The party who wants out without cause should be forced to forfeit everything accumulated during the marriage, including the kids.
Groups like SmartMarriages and Amerians for Divorce Reform are working towards that end. Look into it.