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A Word of Warning: Resist the Lure of Pornography
Chalcedon ^ | 1/9/02 | Gerald W. Tritle

Posted on 01/09/2002 7:29:19 AM PST by truthandlife

Pornography – the written and/or graphically portrayed uncovering of nakedness, especially in acts of fornication – grips the hearts and lives of many Christian men and, according to recent surveys, twenty percent of ministers. It tempts potential patrons from its store shelves and by mail, and it champions over three million websites, enticing over twenty percent of online viewers.

Porn appeals to an undisciplined culture (both inside and outside the church) that refuses to mature mentally and sexually. Specifically, many Christian men of all ages find it easier to view porn than to fulfill their God-given responsibilities to glorify their Lord and to love their spouses, their children, their estates, and their congregations.

As Christians, we would expect unregenerate men, who are in bondage to the sin of their Adamic nature, to embrace no conviction against viewing pornography. These men, as are all men before coming to Christ, are corrupt by nature and in need of spiritual rebirth, needing to call upon Christ Jesus for salvation. These men will only curtail or cease viewing porn when they are threatened civically (being jailed or imprisoned), professionally (getting fired), or domestically (being sued for divorce).

To the Christian, porn appeals to the workings of sin in the flesh (Rom. 7:23) that must yet be submitted to the Lordship of Jesus Christ. It is unbiblical for the world or the church to think that a Christian cannot be tempted to view and to succumb to the viewing of porn during a time or times of weakness. Yet, having yielded to the beguiling temptation of viewing porn, the Christian must realize, as spoken by Christ Jesus, that he has sinned by committing fornication (in the case of the unmarried) or adultery (in the case of the married) in the heart – sins which Jesus says will deprive one of eternal life.

For the Christian minister, porn can be alluring as he manages his pressures to serve others, his solitary work environment, his mental exhaustion, and perhaps, his frustrations resulting from his entering the ministry as a novice not fully disciple himself. If he also has relationship and sexual difficulties at home, then porn becomes for him an easy, seemingly victimless escape. However, when he views porn, he jeopardizes the ministry that his God has entrusted to him. 1 Timothy 3:4-5 is clear that the minister’s household must be in order for him to retain his ministry, and, thus, his admitting his habitual porn use exposes problems in his own household, which he must correct lest he be ministerially disqualified. Often, the tremendous guilt that follows is difficult to jettison because the minister is supposedly required to be not only “perfect” but is also forbidden to confess his faults to his brethren (contrary to James 5:16), which would aid in his repentance and restoration.

All Christians: Shall you risk bringing reproach upon the name of our Lord Jesus for a season of lust-filled escape? Shall you risk destroying your own Christian reputations, marriages, families, and estates? Shall you risk jail or prison to fulfill your potentially illegal lusts before calling upon the name of our Lord to save you from yourselves? Do you realize that your viewing Internet porn can be and most likely is being monitored, if not by your bosses at work, then potentially by credit card companies and by porn sites themselves? Furthermore, have you considered that the hardness of your heart and your refusal to repent of this sin may prove indeed that you are no Christian at all, and are, therefore, in danger of eternal damnation? “I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?” (Job 31:1).

Never forget that all men will eventually appear before the judgment seat of Christ to give an account for the deeds done in this life. We, therefore, strongly urge both Christians and non-Christians to repent of this heinous sin and to beg God’s gracious pardon. Christians, if you confess your sin, God is faithful and just to forgive you of your sin. Get rid of your porn regardless of its form or format. Don’t place yourself in a position to view porn. Don’t allow your mind to be idle and filled with pornographic fantasies and thoughts. On the contrary, plan to stay mentally active and to replace pornographic thoughts with pure, holy, and natural thoughts (see Philippians 4:8). Pray for God’s grace to deliver you from the desire to view porn for His name’s sake. Pursue spiritual maturity and love (toward your wife, your children, your church, and your Lord) instead of gratifying your selfish, sinful desires.

Those of you who are spiritual are to restore, with a spirit of meekness, those who have fallen into this sin lest you also be tempted. God will forgive the sins of those who truly repent and turn from their sin.


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Comment #181 Removed by Moderator

To: OWK
But when confronted with an obnoxious criticism of the obnoxious post, you feel compelled to condemn it. Ok.... I see how it works.

You're reading way too much into this, OWK.

182 posted on 01/09/2002 10:02:33 AM PST by r9etb
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To: a_witness
Oh, you're just so cool. Yeah, I can just see you posting your entire family on the net, or rather in the street. In Egypt they have an expression for it but I can't seem to recall it.

Did I say anything about posting pictures of my family on the net?

183 posted on 01/09/2002 10:03:27 AM PST by Labyrinthos
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To: a_witness
Oh, you're just so cool. Yeah, I can just see you posting your entire family on the net, or rather in the street. In Egypt they have an expression for it but I can't seem to recall it.

Did I say anything about posting pictures of my family on the net?

184 posted on 01/09/2002 10:03:35 AM PST by Labyrinthos
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Comment #185 Removed by Moderator

To: r9etb
You're reading way too much into this, OWK.

Maybe.... Or maybe you're not being honest with yourself.

186 posted on 01/09/2002 10:05:40 AM PST by OWK
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To: r9etb
I agree whole-heartedly.
187 posted on 01/09/2002 10:05:42 AM PST by poopsie2
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Comment #188 Removed by Moderator

To: discostu
In a marriage that aknowledges how the real world works the wife doesn't care where the man gets his appitite, just so long as he eats at home.

I wouldn't even fertilize your garden with that load.

189 posted on 01/09/2002 10:06:34 AM PST by r9etb
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To: RedBloodedAmerican
Replacing pron images with pics of Hillary will help.

Indeed. Skin pics passing through a network can be recognized by software (fact). Just install filters in strategic places replacing every skin image with a pic of Hillary (in her black pantsuit) or Ms. Albright (with her butterfly pin). That should cool things down pretty darn quick.

190 posted on 01/09/2002 10:07:25 AM PST by Cachelot
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To: bassmaner
I'm merely stating that it is sentiments like yours that encourage the "person C" types to seek prohibition laws.

By your way of thinking it is sentiments like yours that encourage "person XXX" types to seek laws and promote attitudes that it is acceptable behavior for men to have sex with little boys.

You cannot blame others actions on anothers willingness to discuss an issue....if you can then you and i and all others need to shut up.

191 posted on 01/09/2002 10:11:08 AM PST by is_is
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To: Alas
David had over 700 wives No he didn't.

Oh yes he did. It is a historical fact.

The seduction of Samson by Delila. I have read that and find nothing pornographic about it, perhaps you could tell me ewhat verses you find so. You will find the entire story in the book of Judges

Seduction in of itself is a form of the sin know as lust.

Prehaps you should go back and do a little research yourself.

192 posted on 01/09/2002 10:11:17 AM PST by Paul C. Jesup
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To: NC_Libertarian
How about the people who make it? Certainly some of them are straddling the line of immaturity and evilness. I've seen some stuff that really made me feel sorry for some of these girls. I wonder if they've got a family somewhere.

I have a hard time feeling sorry for them.They make thier choices and have to live with the consequences,it's as simple as that.I have to believe the majority are on drugs and that is really what is consuming them.The pornography is a way to get paid handsomely to get the drugs.God helps those who help themselves.....

193 posted on 01/09/2002 10:11:24 AM PST by oust the louse
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To: another1
Thanks in advance.

Well, there's one very simple and direct connect: Anything (good morals included) that puts a crimp in Larry Flynt's influence will be good for conservatism.

194 posted on 01/09/2002 10:12:04 AM PST by Cachelot
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To: truthandlife
To the Christian, porn appeals to the workings of sin in the flesh (Rom. 7:23)

Well now. That explains a lot.

What a negative, ugly view of human sexuality and human beauty.

196 posted on 01/09/2002 10:13:38 AM PST by Doctor Doom
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To: EricOKC
implying i would encourage my child to get a job in the industry.

You pretend there is no shame, nothing wrong in it. The clear implication is that you approve of it.

What's that ? Oh, you mean only for Other People's Kids ? The spice must flow to satisfy demand. Kids must be recruited and turned, especially young women.

197 posted on 01/09/2002 10:14:12 AM PST by a_witness
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To: EricOKC
Do you know why we prosecute and imprison adults who only view child pornography (kids < 18) for their entertainment ?
198 posted on 01/09/2002 10:18:26 AM PST by a_witness
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To: tonycavanagh
>>You could be right I am a FreeRepublic addict even while at work, one day I may get the boot fror freeping too much.<<

A few years ago, I did...

199 posted on 01/09/2002 10:18:35 AM PST by RobRoy
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To: Ron Jeremy
Oh well, you might as well get the invite, unless of course, you're "working"...
200 posted on 01/09/2002 10:18:54 AM PST by Registered
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