You have this totally backwards. The judge did what they asked him to do: issued restraining orders. When they decide not to abide by their own request, then they should pay a fine to reimburse the court for the wasted time. It's no different than filing frivilous lawsuits.
To characterize this as a judge, out of the blue, ordering a woman to stay away from someone is nuts. Restraining orders have to be requested.
Got it now?
One nit to pick: I strongly suspect that Judge Megan Lake Thornton is not a "he"...