There you go...
I didn't 'miss' your point, I ignored it.
I ignored it because I don't believe it's a valid one. I think it’s whiny, and woosy, in fact.
The world, and the folks in it, are never going to 'do things your way' Peep. If you need a lot of that kind of stroking in your life, you need to head on out to Burger King.
If a little rough and tumble is too much for you, you'd be well advised to turn tail when you encounter it. You'll grow old and gray (and disappointed) waiting for other people to accommodate you, buddy. Hey, bottom line here, most of us just don't care whether you have a thick enough skin to survive. 'K'?
My take is that the kitchen is just 'too hot' here to suit you.
Maybe a return to DU is in order?