[summer]

Two suggestions:

(1) change your name from "grumpster-dumpster" to something more appealing, like "Fantastic Single Guy"

(2) Search on the web for an organization in your area that combines (a) volunteer work work with (b) singles, so you will meet new people in a non-threatening situation where you can get to know someone.

Good luck, and Merry Christmas! :)

[grumpster-dumpster]

"change your name from "grumpster-dumpster" to something more appealing, like "Fantastic Single Guy"

Are you kidding! I just hired a lawyer to have my name legally changed to "grumpster-dumpster!" And another thing: the name "Fantastic Single Guy" would make me sound ike a democrat member of PFLAG! Come-on...admit it! When you see a screen name like "Fantastic Single Guy" you think of a homo-underwear model named Lance! NOOO! Thank you!

Merry Christmas to you and yours! :)