My wife divorced me this summer and left town, not for another guy, but because she couldn't handle the stress of some legal action I am involved in. I did not get a single invitation from anyone at my church, but a couple (married, but both previously divorced) at a chuch where I have started going to for a singles group, invited singles who had no where else to go for Thanksgiving. I accepted, and I didn't even know them, as did about 10 other singles. We started at noon and had such a great time, most people stayed until 10 p.m. My advice to you is to accept that invitation. Chances are, they have been where you are and you would have a great time. I'm going back for Christmas, too.