Sorry, ma'am, but it ain't my spin. I got it from J. Vernon McGee, a former pastor and formerly internationally recognized Bible preacher, Thru the Bible teacher, nationally syndicated radio. He's pretty sound doctrine-wise as far as I'm concerned. And his explanation for that statement "women shall not speak in church" sound more plausible than old Viva's who's parroting that women should basically shut up period.
Well, if women shall not speak in church, can you explain to me why Jesus would select a WOMAN to start a church?? When Jesus spoke to the woman at the well, and told her what HE knew about her life, she went into the village and gathered all the people to hear HIM. I'm sure the scripture says she started a church in her home.
You see, the two don't agree - if you say women can't speak in church, and then have Jesus approach women to start a church. The two are opposed to each other. And ... I am very confident Paul did not teach anything which was contrary to what Jesus wanted him to teach.