If that was ALWAYS the case then I would have never attained the skill-level I posess now.
I struggled through several cheap no-name Japanese guitars (none with less than 4 pick-ups *grin*) all sporting horrible large gauge, flatwound strings - before I finally attained a Gibson SG at 16 yrs old. But I believe it made a better guitarist out of me, paid my dues, so to speak.
Wish I still had those old battle-axes (sniff)