you're not weaseling out of it that easy... you made a claim that implied religious authority....it was refuted decisively...all your BS to save face isn't going to make it go away. I'm not going to let it.
My, my, my, aren't we impressed with ourselves. You have no authority to make me do anything!!
Secondly, my initial statement still stands. God does and always will hold the husband responsible for the marriage relationship. He does also hold the wife responsible for taking care of her husband and children.
If you have refuted that, it's news to me.