Again, why would you suggest I learn how to communicate in a way that you find pleasing, rather than you learning how to communicate without provoking me?
Maybe because I don't have any fear of your resorting to physical violence if you become "provoked". Frankly, I couldn't conceivably care less whether you are "provoked" or not. My only point of contention was and IS those who make blanket condemations and don't expect to be challenged because of it. Period.