[independentmind]

Well, I guess I subscribe to the idea that there are at least two sides to every story. If you think that you lack the resources to resolve your problems by yourself, then perhaps you might want to consider talking to a priest, minister or other counseler.

[Woahhs]

You don't seem to understand....I did solve my problem. But only by demanding my wife give me the same level of respect she expected me to give her, and demonstrating conclusively that she wasn't. BTW...I fall into the 15 year catagory, and yes, she is my first wife.

[Woahhs]

I may consider your Asian woman suggestion if the one I have now beats me to the grave though.