Honestly, I resent the implication here. I wasn't attempting to make a blanket declaration. I was responding to a post that decried the fact the it's mostly the women who initiate divorces that never bothered to take into consideration the fact that there just MAY be some underlying reasons for this. I NEVER implied that (or if I DID, I apologize) one or the other was completely at fault nor that there wasn't room for improvement on both sides.
No you were trying to establish plausible deniability for a hypothetical best case scenario for the woman. I resent your stating the obvious, because if those were the particulars that men complained about....I wouldn't listen to them either.