Never get married because everyone else you know is, you list after that person, you lust after the position / mopney of that person, you want to get away from your family / job / present condition .
Know yourself, and know just what you are willing to put up with, and what you can't. Know what you are looking for in a mate, and don't expect life or marriage to be easy / always happy / without problems / unexpected events.
Yeterday's COMMON SENSE , has been almost lost / forgotten by most, today.
Nope, YOU aren't an anacranism at all. LOL There are many of us; but the complainers are the most vocal and the most noticed.