One can only research this topic for so long before losing the ability to see the screen.
How can I thank you, technochick99! The tears that come as I read through this thread are tinged with warmth, love, smiles, gratitude, memories, even hope. Thanks.
And thanks to you, Brunna, for connecting me with all of these caring people in my grief. Now you see why I spent so much of our precious time at the computer. But sure who was to know that time would end so soon.