I am well aware of how he died; that doesn't have anything to do with the undeniable fact that he didn't provide for his family in case of his death.
Most men only provide for a get-on-your feet period, anyway. I think the charities have enough of our $$$ to do more, and they ought to, and for flight 93 in particular.
I'm saying the heroes of that flight deserve our help providing for their families, and if we can make it so that income for his expected lifetime is replaced, I'd be proud to do it.