I'd say it's because we need government, like it or not. Some really smart guy, (can't recall who) said; "If man were perfect, we would need no government." We're far from perfect.
I always like what Washington said about government. I'll paraphrase. Government is like fire... a very useful and necessary tool, but one that must be constantly watched.
All the various stripes of socialism allow that fire to grow out of control.
Could not agree with you more, friend!
:) ttt