Nowhere in the Bible have I ever read a positive spin on homosexuality. Nowhere in the Bible have I found any promotion of being gay. Jesus Christ instructed us to have pitty. Many people interpret that to mean that we should "love the sinner, not the sin". That's all well and good, but what part of that statement says to promote the activity?
We know God works in mysterious ways. He was probably telling you that you needed to find a different church. Good thing you listened!