I want to be able to remain feminine I guess. It's not like there is a switch that you can turn off and on. Well, that's not totally true, but the more you use that switch, the more often you have to turn off the woman in you, the harder it gets to turn it back on I guess.
Men who want a feminine women need to think about what there is about this society than creates the opposite.
Unfortunately, Tisha, this society is pretty well gone. That's just how it is - just like our Constitutional Republic, it's really just nice memories. And your man, no matter how good he is, isn't really going to be able to accomplish much change in what's left of a once-good country/society.
But I DON'T think you need to become hardened in order to deal with it. My wife is an excellent example - being Oriental (Korean), she started out with different values than we have in the West. She's been in the West for over 20 years, but she's kept a lot of those basic values, and she's the sweetest, most feminine person I've ever known. Crudeness just bounces off of her - she ignores it like it's not even there. I don't know exactly how she does it, but it seems to work for her :)
Truer words were never spoken. I have been wondering where we could go to live in a place that has not gone insane. But it is pretty hard to get away from it.