I have to get a little giggle when women somehow get this idea that all the above things are not compatable with a Bible based marriage and a woman who is home. I think it shows a very limited view of life, love, and happiness and is the true underestimation of what a woman is capable of. Maybe I'm reading too much into what you wrote, but based on your answer to the questions earlier, I'm getting the notion that you have an idea of what a smart, assertive woman is and it doesn't mesh with one who is a homemaker and/or stay at home mother?