You sound like a "true" Christian in the most sincerest sense to me. At least you come across as a caring nonjudgemental person. And I'll take you over a 1000 button wearing Christians that don't "get it". Who snub others and talk the talk.. but don't walk the walk.
Great to meet ya Joe.. God Bless!! Mary Ann
Send them to hell with a smile and a handshake! What ever you do hide the gospel..maybe you could send him a Potter book instead!