[Brad’s Gramma]

And.......using your terminology.....she'd be forced to live with this for every minute of her life, which will be far more than the 7 months or so that she knows she's pregnant. I vote for living with something for 7 months over living with guilt and shame for the rest of your life.

[pcl]

I vote for living with something for 7 months over living with guilt and shame for the rest of your life.

That is the point. This is NOT your choice to make for anyone other than yourself.