Sorry, girls, we aren't buying that crap at this point in our country's history. We need all the red-blooded American men we can develop, and fewer of the girly-men you want to raise.
Let's start from the assumption that the good guy doesn't want to hurt anyone. Ok, he tries to talk to the bad guys, and the bad guy, as they are wont to do, does not listen. I've seen many stories,comics, movies and TV programs that show the hero TRYING TO talk to the bad guy but it won't work. So violence is the only way sometimes. Even then, the villain will get a second chance at life before getting offed.
Life IS conflict, not all need be violent, but when the stakes are highest, violence will occur. It's a fantasy world that these people think that having your son act out a scenario as an accountant is going to do a damn thing but make him a boring, uptight, girly accountant:)
This is clearly a case where there's a market for this stuff because males want it, and have always wanted it.