Trouble is, the males in that category tend to be overwhelmingly liberal as well-- they won't take responsibility for their actions either so want the gubmint to do it.
The jilted ladies are, in effect, cutting their own throats by making big government Daddy, husband and ATM all rolled into one. The responsibile men (and women) end up paying not only for the jilted ladies but the irresponsible ferral males which put them in the situation of looking to big gubmint for solution.
It still takes two to tango. If a women does not have self-esteem and respect herself, the man certainly won't.