It seems a bunch of the women haters on this board want women totally dependent on men with no means of support, mouths SHUT, and no vote. hahahahahahah In your dreams. Jo A Christian who looks to my husband as the head of our family because he is NOTHING like some of the ummmmmm "men" on this board.
I've seen the other side often enough also where the woman does decide to divorce a man they admit is a good man but they decided he was boring. It's really not fair they can take his kids from him and expect child support which they don't always spend just on the kids. I think in a marriage where the agreement is mutual to have a traditional marriage, there should be a legal requirement of alimony, it wouldn't apply to those couples who decided to both work. I also think custody shouldn't be handed out based on the parent's gender.