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To: Don Myers
You know, I find it hard to believe that so many people would want to stay single. It stands in the fase of normalcy. Everyone of us, in my opinion, should be seeking for that life partner, the one who gives of himself/herself unselfishly.

Again, I know the problems that the feminazi movement have caused. However, if you're going to find a woman, I'd say that the church is the best place. The same goes for the gals who want to find a good man.

With me, all I want to do is find a great woman, settle down and raise a family with three or four kids. I can't think of anything better.

110 posted on 11/16/2001 1:05:34 PM PST by FreedomFriend
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To: FreedomFriend
"With me, all I want to do is find a great woman, settle down and raise a family with three or four kids. I can't think of anything better."

Denied. That is not politically correct. You are an anachronism. Where are you going to find a great woman? Even the churches have become corrupt. I look in from time to time on a Christian web site. You would be surprised about how many of those women have affairs and then look to others to comfort them in their "temptation and their sin."

127 posted on 11/16/2001 1:05:54 PM PST by Don Myers
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To: FreedomFriend
You know, I find it hard to believe that so many people would want to stay single. It stands in the fase of normalcy.

Okay, I'll fan the flames here. One big reason men want to stay single is the legally enforceable, punitive aspects of the state-recognized, state-enforced marriage contract.

A government-legal marriage introduces a third party - the government/lawyer system - into the mix.

The marriage/divorce legal system has been described as a matriarchy -- the man, once legally married in the eyes of the state, is suddenly bound and obligated to serve the female. He must keep her happy, for she holds in her hand the power -- backed by the resources of government and law enforcement -- to, at a whim, deprive him of house, children, possessions and income for the current time and for decades to come. Therefore he must capitulate and cower, lest she bring to bear the power and weight of the government legal system against him.

This stands the traditional male/female relationship on its head. The man hates the servitude, the woman (wanting a warrior who will defend the tent and keep her safe while she is inside helpless downloading babies) despise the suddenly (after legally marrying) weak male.

So men flee and avoid the marriage contract. Women reject men who enter the contract and suddenly become servile, fearful and milquetoasty.

The winner in all this? The government of course. It grows geometrically.

Over the years a tiny bit of "balance" has been introduced into the marriage/divorce law system, but it still largely favors the female and punishes/deprives the male.

For more, see The Predatory Female, a tongue-in-cheek look at this.

Incidentally, noble men still legally marry in spite of all this. Noble women who legally marry reject the government/legal power at their disposal and submit to their men, so that the men need not fear them and can remain men. Still, even in that agreement, the man's manliness is based on the grant given him by the female, so she still has the power. I guess the noble man just has to take his chances and go with it. ;o)

167 posted on 11/16/2001 1:06:48 PM PST by KillerWabbit
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