If you click "old style" for the thread, you will probably see your name on the list in post #2. The new forum software allows huge lists of recipients to be flagged but only displays the first line of them when displaying the thread in the "new style".
I believe that the latest self-search software has also eliminated the problem of posts to similarly named people showing up in one's self search, although it still happens if you try to do a "to:" or "by:" query on someone else.