Look, I understand the paranoia a fair bit better as a result of one of the last posts, but frankly, I think you're just a weeee bit overworked. Especially in light of the fact that to this point, I've specifically requested that people DON'T send any contact information to me.
You know, if I wanted phone numbers of females, there are about a thousand hell of a lot easier ways to acquire them. Like, um, opening the telephone book, for example. There are probably a few dozen phone numbers of single women on each and every page.
Those would also have the slight advantage of not being about 1500 miles away...
You have the distinct misfortune of having one of THE main suspected FR shills posting on your thread and pushing the idea. That's equivalent to going to a job interview for a clergyman's job and then having Bill Clinton show up to offer himself as your personal reference for honesty and integrity. :-/