If you really cared about these women experiencing heartache and pain, you wouldn't be on a junk science based crusade to convince them they have more to feel heartache and pain about than they really do. Using junk science to manipulate people's emotions is evil. And the "deep dark secret" about this is of the same variety as the deep dark secret about the Bilderbergers and the Trilateral Commission and the Illuminati plotting to take over the world.