Have you opened a can of worms!!!!
Actually I agree 110% that women have changed their God- given place. But I do not (in most cases) blame men for the change because they have refused to fulfill their places.
The blame lies with both husband and wife for wanting everything right now, so they buy everything on credit which forces mom's to work. They do it in the name of "giving their kids everything, makeing their lives better" but IMO that is a crock. Kids are better when they have parents who raise them rather then school and day care.
For the life of me I do not understand how things got to where people think women who stay home and be wife and mother are not worth anything. These are our children we are talking about, who did not ask to be here, and deserve better then being stuck in day care so mom can persue a career and drive a new car.
I really can get on a soap box on this subject, sorry:)
As far as being submissive to a husband, there has to be a final authority. In the OT when Jacob was thinking of leaving Laban's house he talked it over with his wives, Rachel and Leah, then made a decision keeping what they said in mind. That is how it should work. Also, the bible never says that a women has to love her husband, but husbands should love their wives. Husbands need to keep in mind 1 Cor. 13. If husbands do that, I don't believe any women would have trouble being submissive, or in fact then loving their husband. You have to look at the whole picture, read ALL the instructions:)
I'm done now:)
Becky