Sure Dave.
I can assure you that had Havoc and company not accused the Church of being "soft" on homosexuality, and you backing him up by looking for loopholes, I would not have had to spend the time to try to explain words to people.
If you or he gave us the slightest amount of credit, or considered us a conservative Christian Church, you would not make such accusations and and I wouldn't have to explain things like "chastity" and "intrinsically disordered."
Answer this honestly. Do you think the Church approves of incest? Beastiality? Necrophilia?
This question is much too rediculous to answer. The mere fact that you'd ask it speaks more of you than your many words.
Why is it ridiculous? You are the one claiming the Church doesn't disapprove of homosexuality or incest, doesn't call it evil. Using your loophole parsing, this is exactly the relevant question for you.
The fact that you can not speak up and say one nice thing about the Church's teaching on sexual morality speaks more than your many words.
SD