So true. I have a different situation, I think. My husband was baptized a Lutheran but is now an agnostic. He is pretty hostile to the Catholic faith but not around the kids. We do not fight over religion at all but I do the religious training and take them to church. I have to give him credit for being there at any serious religious ceremony like baptisms, communion, first penance. Not sure how this is all going to work out for the kids when they are older, but I try each day to integrate God in my kids' lives. I guess we all do our best and let God figure it out!