right now, you are either a friend of the US, or an enemy of the US. Make up your mind and accept the consequences of your choice.
While my opinions on the wisdom of NZ nuclear free policy is (I trust) quite clear; I remind you that that is the past. As a famous General said, "Mistakes in war can only be corrected in the next war." This IS the next war.
And in this war NZ has pledged to stand with Autralia, and Korea, and Japan, and US - as well as all the civilized world - against the dealers of murder and fear. That seems like a pretty clear choice to me.