It may also explain why so many women seem indifferent toward decent conservative guys, but swoon over worthless liberals. By being sexually aggressive, liberal males are stimulating the production of Oxytocin. By being proper and respectful, conservatives males inhibit the production of Oxytocin.This is a disturbingly plausible explanation. On the other hand, if this is true, then the Darwinists win, and it's senseless to worry about anything.While it would be wrong to generalize to all women, all too often it appears that the more respect you show toward a woman, the more contempt she shows toward you. With women proclaiming with their mouths that all men are jerks, and at the same time their actions are resulting in an illegitimacy rate reaching record levels, you know something isn't tracking here.
For most of human history, the act of seduction has been blamed entirely on men, as if women have no responsibility. That may be closer to the truth than we care to admit.
I think that is going a little too far. Many liberal women are physically attractive in their 20s and 30s.Beauty is among the most corrupting all of human qualities, and beautiful women are seduced, uniformly, by the Blob (membership of The Ladies' Investigative Guild notwithstanding). When one of these Volvo-driving, Yoko Ono Sunglasses-wearing, Sheryl Crow-listening, Lilith Fair-attending chicks discovers you're pro-life, you can kiss her goodbye. They will NOT date us, and the rejections can be pretty damned humiliating.But by the time they get into their forties, the fertility magnetism is gone, and their hubbies wake up each morning next to a nightmare of bitterness and vile.
As for me, I find that as I get older, even liberal women in their 20s and 30s no longer seem attractive. The complete and total self-absorption, the eternal self-pity, seeing themselves as the center of the universe, constantly bellowing out demands and brooking no disagreement no matter how emotionally irrational their viewpoint is -- well, it's too much like my mother.
I consider my husband perfect: He's right-minded, loves rock, can dance after several drinks, can go to a movie without lamenting on the downfall of society, is good in the bedroom, makes a killer chili and beef stew, he's intelligent, actually likes my cat, tells hysterical jokes....
Yes dont you just love tlling your date you are pro-life and then having a conversation about how God has changed your life. Hun why would you want to date them anyway...? We are talking about the dregs of humanity.. ;)
Oh, it's not your politics or your morality or anything highbrow like that that's running them off. Jay Leno explained it in his autobiography: it's called "The Rule of 39-1/2". Women have sensitive, autodetecting software built in, that measures how old you are. Once you hit 39-1/2, a macro is invoked that re-codes all your charming idiosyncrasies, your little tics and oddities that, when you were 20, added up to your uniqueness, into icky shortcomings, as in "Eeeewwwwwwwwww!"
That's the "Rule of 39-1/2".
Leno wasn't just woofing, by the way. That's backed up by psych studies that show that men in their early forties overestimate their attractiveness to women by a "factor of three", however that "factor" was arrived at, according to an abstract I once read that was made into a newspaper story. What is happening is that the guys are evaluating themselves by objective criteria, and figuring that they must still be pretty attractive since they haven't put on very much weight or lost very much muscle tone or hair since they were 35 or so.......but what they don't count on, and what the scientific study didn't pick up on, was that women change their criteria according to the guy's age, and basically discount his attractiveness by 2/3 when he turns 40 -- Leno's "Rule of 39-1/2". It isn't that the guy's less attractive -- it's just that women are less attracted to him because they're discounting the living daylights out of his advantages, on account of his age. It's the ultimate age discrimination!
There's another thing that begins to happen when women turn about 28. They start losing a hormone that encourages helpfulness and the urge to take care of another person -- this is the hormone that drives teenaged girls to want to pick up a baby, take care of their younger sibs, look after their young swain. By the time they're 35, that hormone is long gone and they're working off memory and habit....and by the time they're 40 or so and the old man is just getting comfortable with life and thinking he's finally getting to where he wants to be in life......wham! She serves him with divorce papers, throws him out on his butt, and goes off and joins a group of like-minded, male-bashing grass widows.
And remember, Jack, it's all your fault!