Your questions go in circles, because there is no answer possible to them and the answer to your question is not what you are seeking.
There is nothing the church can do to please you or satisfy you. Until you look at what it is you really want, your questions will not be the right questions for you and they will not be helpful to you or to others.
I'm sorry. My questions go in circles, because IMO your answers go in circles:). It seems very hard to get a straight answer. Usually you get a question throwed at you as an answer.
I ask the questions to find out if I am understanding what you say the catholic church teaches. Once I feel I understand (sometimes that takes a while, given the answers I get:) then I want to know if the belief or doctrine or issue, can be backed up with scripture. If it can't, or if I have a different interpretation of a scripture I say so. Then we can discuss our differences, and maybe both learn something from said discussions.
I thought we all agreeded to disagree. I can't agree with what your chruch teaches, but I learn alot discussing our differences.
If this topic has already been discussed, I missed it, sorry. If you don't like my questions don't answer.
Becky