Some are. Some just let you think they are. And every now and then you'll run into one with whom you'll only get to manip before you get ulated. :^)
That's the beauty of it. It doesn't matter -- the end result is the same. Even if a man is just pretending that he doesn't catch on that he's being manipulated, he goes along with whatever his woman wants because his hormones kick in and he loses all control. It's worth it to him [...pant...pant..]
It's a win-win situation for both of them, but the woman ends up getting more than the man...
The man gets sex and that's it.
The woman gets sex plus what she originally wanted!